Bob Nakamoto: it rather is a standing image for women folk people. between the 1st factor a woman over 25 will say to a distinctive women people while they first meet " Do you have a husband??" additionally telling people" My husband would not desire us to try this" carry lots greater weight than " My boyfriend would not desire me to try this". in case you're saying me boyfriend would not desire us to try this " women people will nonetheless attempt to get the girl to do it because of the fact even with each and every thing he's not a husband. yet once you're saying " My husband...." women people will supply up attempting to get the girl to do it because of the fact they a husband is greater severe and an expert parent. that may no longer a reason to marry although in elementary terms for status. Marriage isn't a sturdy deal for adult males. women people divorce for extremely stupid motives at the instant as i'm no longer happy, i'm bored. And the guy gets to work out his! baby as quickly as a month and pay maximum of his income in alimony. do no longer marry her till you be attentive to she is severe. tell her you will marry her if she writes a splash paper that she has the same opinion in elementary terms to divorce you if there is cheating and or abuse. And if she pulls the cord for the different reason it's going to be stupid and he or she would be in a position to tell your little ones. Mommy replace into stupid and divorced Daddy he replace right into a sturdy guy.If she has the same opinion to this she is severe. the different project different than for cheating and or abuse might nicely be mounted. even if it rather is i'm no longer in love with you yet i admire you( merely skill might desire to get spark lower back) etc. all might nicely be mounted....Show more
Deangelo Marchak: I was going to say, a marriage is by definition a commitment to our spouse.When the feelings fade, it is that commitment that keeps a marriage togethe! r.All it takes is for one partner to no longer take his or her! commitment seriously for the marriage to end.This is NOT a gender issue, it's a values issue. There are just as many unfaithful, uncommitted women as men out there wrecking marriages....Show more
Jonie Lauria: "someone" is extremely bitter today................
Lawana Neemann: That little peace of paper signed kido,ciao
Idell Dufort: I don't know how you concocted that little piece of fallacious logic, but commitment is a concept much larger than you envision it.What has to happen before people even consider marriage is that they have to have a solid, emotionally mature RELATIONSHIP.Some of the key elements of a successful relationship - married or otherwise - are: 1) A long list of common interests; things you both enjoy doing TOGETHER as opposed to separate interests and separate groups of friends.2) A lot of tolerance for each other's differences. As much as you share in common, you're still going to rub one another wrong from time to time. Be mature ! and deal with it. Separate the small $h!t from the serious stuff.3) A sense of compromise; so that you can work out your problems with a minimum of emotional trauma. It's marital negotiation.4) A sense of sympathy and forgiveness. You're both going to screw up on occasion. You need to be able to forgive, forget, and move on with the relationship.You also have to have discussed all the issues that are important to you both: sex, children, money, careers, religion, philosophies, politics, etc.Alright...when you get to this point, we can talk about commitment.This means that you consider yourself a team; you intend to stand by one another through thick and thin and cover each other's backs. You're not going to get that from a marriage license.Any kind of contract - social or business - is no better than one's WORD. If you word is no good, a piece of paper means nothing.For someone who understands, the definition of commitment also encompasses things like punctuality (being on ! time), dedication (to a job or task), discipline (sticking to a task, o! rganization).I hope I have helped you better understand the ideas of marriage and "commitment."...Show more
Cyndy Grimes: Maybe you should ask the cheaters and liars of the world why they enter into marriage and agree to vows they have no intention of following.Marriage IS commitment - just few take it for the serious union that it is...And ask anyone that's divorced - marriage DOES NOT end overnight!...Show more
Robin Tommie: One reason women consider marriage to be a commitment is found in the words of the wedding ceremony.For better, for worseFor richer, for poorerIn sickness and in healthKeep you only unto me so long as we both shall live.What God has joined together, let no one put asunder.Divorce is the ultimate commitment broken!!...Show more
Dexter Dicostanzo: Marriage is ABSOLUTELY 100% A COMMITTMENT. If you are believe that you can get out of a marriage overnight, then you are incapable of committment.
Weldon Totaro: YES, I like your way o! f thinking Richard....The commitment should've been there in the beginning and then came the marriage license. The marriage license is actually a commitment between the two of you and the state. Then the divorce is the makin of the license nell and void between the 'three of you'. This is why I think the act of divorce is rough on a guy w/ the give me half deal. In order to make the guy(s) think harder about gettin the divorce....Show more
Rona Espalin: marriage is a commitment and its also a promise that is made in front of friends and God. Marriage is also a contract, most people marry for the wrong reasons, and that is why divorce is so popular, to me marriage is sacred and should never be taken lightly, or with the thoughts that there is divorce available. marriage is for life and should be that way
Shelley Stevens: it's a commitment
Romeo Tinnea: I disagree. My wife and I both believed that marriage was a commitment if it is entered into by two cari! ng, honest, and faithful people. The failure of commitment is due to th! e lack of integrity in people. Remember that commitment is not based on marriage it's the other way around. That's why there are so many divorces. Just because two people have their signatures on a marriage license it doesn't mean they are committed to staying married. If the commitment isn't there to begin with it is doomed from the start. And by the way you may have picked up my answer written in past tense. I carried my wedding vows to the end to love, honor, and cherish until death she did part. There are many of us that still believe in loving someone to the end of their life and beyond....Show more
Jinny Dronen: when you make your vows you do commit, if someone can't keep their pants done up then that is their problem!! I was a 100% committed.
Lorine Helwick: Marriage is most definately a commitment. Yes, many are ending in divorce these days, which may make it seem that marriage is not a commitment. I have been married twice, and I can assure you that it! was a commitment both times. My first marriage took about 1 year to plan and have, 2 years trying to save it, and 1.5 years for the divorce to be finalized. It was not pretty, it was not fun, nor was it easy.Divorce is not an overnight thing, it takes many times more than a year to be finalized, as well as can be quite expensive. Most people don't enter into marriage planning for it to end in divorce. Relationships can end overnight, but marriages take a commitment the whole time....Show more
Heidy Fujikake: Have fun twisting words to mean what you want them to mean! it still dont make it so my friend.
Sang Hanafin: huh?marriage is a commitment. divorce is a way to get out of a marriage is your getting beat or raped or abused in some way...divorce, to me, is a last resort....Show more
Georgia Dees: well, its supposed to be, but it isnt... marriage by definition , look it up.
Neville Dautremont: I think that you're confusing commitment with a comme! rcial contract. It's not. Marriage is commitment to God and the communi! ty that they'll be loyal to the other and love the other until they are seperated by death. It should be and often is a binding agreement.However, in this day and age of disposable everything, some people think that their spouses and families are disposable also. It's too easy to just give up when things get tough. People often don't want to work it out and try and talk things through. It's just easier to walk away. I don't beleive in that but it's fairly common in this day and age. Still, there are a lot of people that can and do stick it out. I'm one of them.So, I don't think your original premise is entirely accurate. Keep the faith!...Show more
Mario Stricklan: I have been married for 17 years and I can say marraige is without a doubt a commitment. Just because it has a way out does not mean the decision should not be taken seriously.
Woodrow Neyman: you must not take it seriously if that is how you feel...
Misty Vagle: That is exactly how I feel...I ! don't see why we have to get married. All marriage does is prove to the people around you that you love that person or reassure the person you're with that you'll never leave them. I don't need people to recognize I'm in love or a piece of paper to tell me I want to spend the rest of my life with a certain person and if my guy isn't sure that I love him then maybe he should re-evaluate whether he wants to be with me...I have a mind of my own and can decide those feelings without anything or anyone telling me how committed I am. In my case, I don't know why men think that marriage is a commitment....I also don't see why religions get angry when people divorce. I mean if it wasn't meant to be it wasn't meant to be. Why live unhappy the rest of your life? Great question by the way!...Show more
Mitchell Pickens: Sorry no. Divorce in some state is not that easily obtained. I believe they call it marriage for life. You can't divorce someone just because you can't get along.!
Antonia Boomershine: it's a committment to make it work---so you! don't end in a divorce!!!!!
Coleman Coscia: Used to be that people took the vows seriously. For better or for worse has lost its meaning. Now it's more like for better of else....It's a sign of the times. It has gotten too easy to say one thing and do another.
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